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Welcome to #checkin for Thursday, December 18, 2025!


Good evening/afternoon/morning, everyone, and welcome to today's #checkin. T-1 days left to work this year. Tomorrow is finally my last day of work this year. Then finally holidays. Some other colleagues already have holidays, so there will be a handful of people working tomorrow in the office. Despite that, I met with a couple of people at the Christmas market, and we drank some mulled wine together. It was a nice evening. Today is. "I love Honey Day," which is fitting, as last weekend I was at the Christmas market in Frankfurt and bought honey, mead, and beeswax candles from a regional beekeeper. Of course, you can also buy some regional specialties or cookies, even some special dog treats!

Even if you don't celebrate Christmas, are there any traditions you do around this year? Baking cookies? Meetting friends? Writing cards?
Christmas market in Paderborn

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in reply to Christoph S

When her kids were little, my aunt would wrap up silly "gifts" for each night of Chanukah (we had a big family party, but this kept them occupied until then). I have continued that. The "gifts" are things like chocolate coins, hummus, an apple, and so on. And, now each year, I post the photos of the wrapped presents and have some friends try to guess what they are.
in reply to Christoph S

Holiday cards, making snacks, and a bit of holiday decoration. I usually get together with family on Christmas and New Years Day. It's all holiday, all the time, so ... a few things to vary the routine.
in reply to Christoph S

Not really sure this year. My usual traditions revolved around singing at the big liturgies at church and going to visit my younger son and granddaughter. My older son usually Hhas stayed over a night or two before going back to his base in Omaha. All up in the air at the moment.

Holiday decorating this year is the few things I could reach to get out. A small ceramic lit Christmas tree, a wreath and some seasonal decorative pottery. For me that's pretty slim but without the ability to reach high shelves or lift heavy items It's not happening.

in reply to Christoph S

I put up my Mood Improver lights for the dark days. My neighbors think they are Christmas lights, and I don't disabuse them of that notion, but they are really Mood Improver lights.
in reply to Christoph S

Christmas - grrrrr. That guy gets all of the birthday energy and I get none. Grrrrrr.
in reply to Christoph S

Normally I do Xmas day at Mrs. Dean's sister's, but they are headed to Hawaii this year. It will likely be just like any other day. It's not a big event for me in any case, but I will miss the joviality. OTOH after they get back there will be a belated NY/XMas party involving turkey tetrazzini from the TG leftovers.
in reply to Christoph S

Whackable Chocolate Oranges. Otherwise, not really.
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Whackable Chocolate Oranges


Oh, I should get a couple for New Years Board Game Night. 🙂

in reply to Christoph S

Here, those chocolate oranges are from a company called Terry's, so it's Terry's Chocolate Orange.
in reply to Christoph S

Today was...

Every man has a plan that will not work - My father, after cutting a length of counter top too narrow.


(sigh) It was one of those "Measure Twice, Cut Once" and still manage to ef it up days. At least I got a shelf installed on the porch next to the wood railing a feral cat sleeps on at night. It's so pitiful, he falls off sometimes.
I'm building a cat house to hang on a cleat about a foot above the shelf with a landing for him to rest on. I had planned for it to be a ~14" square, but realized that I have to contend with the screen door out swing.
Whoopsie.

in reply to Christoph S

The daughter and duaghter-in-law will be here for Dec 31 - Jan 3 so we get to do Christmas twice.

Every man has a plan that will not work - My father, after cutting a length of counter top too narrow.


After we spent way too much time looking everywhere reasonable for a tube of graphite to lube a lock, my wife (at the time) found it... in the kids' room, on a bookshelf. Whereupon she declared,

See? Here it is! We don't have a system, and it doesn't work.
in reply to Christoph S

Stockpiling stuff to avoid shopping out of the house until after new years as much as possible.
in reply to Christoph S

Dad fixed the counter with a tall backsplash.
He cut a step in the bottom of the backsplash to take up the space between the counter top and the wall. and bring the back splash down to the desired height. Problem solved.
When he was finished he said:

Man is the mis-measurement of all things.
in reply to Christoph S

Friday is also the last working day of the year for me, as of Friday AM most/all of the snow is gone - husband is going out in the AM to do some needed shopping, anything missed I'll take care of on Sunday. I set candles in windows on Yule as a celebration, keep those til the New Year. In this cold weather we tend to snag enough food til (hopefully) after the New Year!
in reply to Christoph S

I've been baking...we'll have treats until March😄 most of my activities will be in break until January 5. We were thinking of doing Christmas with Fred's family on Boxing Day but Bennie would be coming and I don't relax when he's in different spaces.
in reply to Christoph S

I will likely need to get a few things next week (milk, for instance), but I will go early in the day to try to beat the crowds.
in reply to Christoph S

We do have a cookie exchange on Sunday. I always make pecan sandies, but I think I will add something this year. Cook's Illustrated has a recipe for duplicating those great cookies you get when you fly Delta.
in reply to Christoph S

When you go to a midsized town's square at oddball time of the day you might see this. Hardly any people. On the other upside, all shops are closed. :))

in reply to Christoph S

Re writing Christmas cards, well I have received quite a few cards, thank you all! I'm the first to admit I did not write any at all this year. Don't hold your breath. Also we'll have friends over from the farthest away place possible, and instead of 20C and up they"ll be in for freezing point temps here.

While today was the last day before some days of holiday, I'll have an official handover 'between the years' as we say, and too many hours of following the 39C3 proceedings over the internet trucks.

I'll buy things to eat over the next few days. No frenzy here unless you wait for Dec 24. Mornings are usually fine if you make it before others had their delay-start-the-day 2nd cup of coffee.

in reply to Christoph S

I've decided this year TO HECK WITH COOKIES! I'm making my delicious Nordic apple carrot soup, and putting it into containers to give away to people!
in reply to Christoph S

it is late friday, and i finally get this.
no particular traditions.
stay dry. stay warm. eat hot food. more hot cocoa (maybe with eggnog, maybe with something else).
read a book (just finished Graeber and Wengrow "The Dawn of Everything")
in reply to Christoph S

In-person xmas stuff kinda stopped for us the year MIL Stranger died. My folks had already moved away. We exchanged gifts with them til they died, by mail except for the last year. Mr. Stranger and I don't really exchange gifts. Most years "he" (meaning me with his credit card lol) renews my Ancestry subscription as a gift. We missed the sale last year but I got back on it this year. I buy him little things (mostly interesting food items) throughout the year and he's happy with that.

Not sure what we'll have for xmas dinner. I've had a ham in there for a while (shrink wrapped, fairly indestructible) and recently added a pork roast (also shrink wrapped) and today picked up a rib roast for, are you sitting down, $8.99/lb! But it is NOT shrink wrapped and may need to be used before the 25th.

Mr. Stranger is threatening to cook xmas dinner... we'll see how that goes...

Still need to get fixins for hoppin john but I have time for that.

in reply to Christoph S

@{strangerthanfiction@diaspora.glasswings.com }wow! My local market was touting FANCY rib roast for $45 a pound!!!
in reply to Christoph S

I forget the price per pound, but I was once tasked with providing a standing rib roast so I went to the local megamart. There used to be a great butcher not so far away, but they closed years ago. I was lucky enough to happen to go there the last day they were open, again (or is it priorly?) tasked with providing a standing rib roast, whew, pure luck! I love going to a good butcher who provides no bullshit. The megamart butchers, when I end up having to talk to them, always seem to feel the need to pry into what I'm doing with the meat and then offer unsolicited critique. "Back meat driving" as it were.

Anyway, whatever the price per pound at the megamart, I got three or four ribs worth and it came to just over $100. The cashier kept scanning it but it kept beeping an error. Evidently they have to get a manager's approval to sell more than $100, whether at a given session (seems odd, given prices) or for a single item. What fraud did they think they were trying to prevent? I found it amusing, but also infuriating. Still, it provided an interesting story tidbit for the table.

in reply to Christoph S

Still need to get fixins for hoppin john


Love hoppin john

in reply to Christoph S

Turns out I'm out of pecans and turbinado sugar. Damn, I hate shopping. At least it's sunny.
in reply to Christoph S

Did not go out to the store to get milk today, so I couldn't make muffins earlier. Oops. Could go now, but meh. No longer a fan of driving at night. Tomorrow is another day.

What frosts my ass about "butchers" lately is the dumb look you get when you ask for a leg of lamb boned and rolled. (and that's particularly necessary this year since the lamb roasts have more bone protruding from them than I've ever seen in my life... left in there to milk every last cent out of the price, I'm sure... they're practically tomahawk steaks!)

There used to be a great butcher not so far away, but they closed years ago.


please tell me not Victor's? (that's who spoiled us with boning and rolling)

@Jodi pretty sure this is not fancy lol, but yeah that is a good-old-days price... it was for "members" only, with a $20 purchase. A scotch over half came off, so I guess the regular price is close to $20/lb. Honestly my heart about stopped before I hit the "total" button (rang myself up) and the roast discount and BOGOs came off 😳

Not sure what the unit price was, but at the green grocer the other day they had a 2-rib roast in the floor case that was over $80. Mine is also about 2 ribs but theirs I think was larger overall.

@Jodi
in reply to Christoph S

@Lisa Stranger leg of lamb here is about $10 a pound. Now there is one place that sometimes has lamb breast (which is essentially fatty ribs). Last I saw it, they were charging something like $6 a lb. But I haven't been there in a while.
in reply to Christoph S

@Lisa Stranger don't remember the name, it was just outside of 695 on Joppa Road, in sort of a strip mall. Been gone since, can't remember, 2005 to 2010 time frame? Belevedere Square, which is near me, for quite some time had an Italian grocery store that had a small, but excellent, meat counter. A bit more expensive, and IIRC you could special order from them if they didn't have what you wanted on display.
in reply to Christoph S

There is a butcher near me like that (also Italian).
in reply to Christoph S

We tried that lamb breast... not sure if I didn't cook it right or what, but meh.

Lamb leg around here is going in the $6-$7 range

@dean (why isn't that tagging?) Victor's is/was inside the Eddie's Supermarket in Roland Park. I seem to recall they tried having an outpost in the Ruxton Eddie's but it didn't end well.

in reply to Christoph S

@Lisa Stranger, ah, it's been a while since I've visited that Eddie's. It's between my house and Hopkins, so it used to be convenient to just stop by on the way to or from work. But, one does eventually graduate. I should make a point to go there again sometime. My shopping tends to go northwards these days.
in reply to Christoph S

@Jodi it came out tender enough, just really greasy
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