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Welcome to #checkin for Friday, August 29, 2025!


Good evening/morning/afternoon, everyone, and welcome to today's #checkin. Just got from meeting a friend. We went to a nice Chinese restaurant with great food. Nothing extravagant, but still nice and yummy. And I was starving....
Today is Lemon Juice Day, so when life gives you lemons...
What is your favorite proverb or maybe a funny variant of an existing proverb? I also find it fascinating how these proverbs translate to other languages... Some are indeed very similar; others are entirely different. The lemon proverb has found its way into German as a literal translation as well, but I think a more original translation would be Repay evil with good.

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“Outside of a dog, a book is man's best friend. Inside of a dog it's too dark to read.”
― Groucho Marx
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Family proverb variation: The apple doesn't fall far from the tree, except when the wind is blowing.
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Nothing travels faster than the speed of light with the possible exception of bad news, which obeys its own special laws.
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@Mark Wollschlager Hah! I remember that one as well. Loved the Marx Brothers movies. They also had good German dubbing.
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I really like using the words of a saint, an authority of the Catholic church, that say one should question authority:

Locus ab auctoritate .. est infirmissimus.
(The argument from authority is the weakest.)
– Thomas Aquinas (1225–1274).

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Arthur C. Clarke's law: "Any sufficiently advanced technology is indistinguishable from magic."

Fred Clark's Law modifies Clark's Third Law: "Any sufficiently advanced incompetence is indistinguishable from malice."
jahernandez.com/posts/philosop…

Howard Thurman — 'Don't ask what the world needs. Ask what makes you come alive, and go do it. Because what the world needs is people who have come alive.'

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My grandma used to say "The Lord helps those who help themselves." Kind of living that one right now.
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One of my favorites is from the Romans: "The person who says it can't be done shouldn't try to stop the person who is doing it."

(Edited to remove the sexism of the original)

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@libramoon One corollary to Clarke’s observation is that “Any sufficiently documented magic is technology.” (This from the former technical writer and software developer.) 🙂
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Made it to the end of the week without any of my fellow US citizens shooting me and mine in the face for no reason real or imagined.

Musical mood of the evening: Breezin', by George Benson

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“The person who says it can’t be done shouldn’t try to stop the person who is doing it.”


I've had to invoke that a couple of times when people were in my way 🤨

nothing travels faster than gossip


a lie is halfway around the world before the truth gets its pants on

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In Australia and New Zealand we have two toilet paper companies who have been advertising their wares using puppies. They would emphasize that their brand didn't shred up and was soft on your bottom.

As such I came up with my own saying: Like toilet paper, it's posible to be both strong and gentle!

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My own invention is this:

Principle: It is said that those who forget the past are doomed to repeat it.

Corollary: If you had a good time tonight then you should forget about it - then you are doomed to repeat it.

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Actions also have unintended consequences

Analysis paralysis ensues

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Violence is the last refuge of the incompetent

Isaac Asimov

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Better to remain silent and be thought a fool than to speak and to remove all doubt.
- Maurice Switzer
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Happy birthday to you @Griff!

@muse I love the advert

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I heard Lab testing? Can confirm, strong and durable. Even if different brand.

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The grande dame of our family, who took her own name back after hubby skedaddled, was a cornucopia of sayings, so we have two mottos:

Better to lug yourself ragged than to go twice.


(i.e. take all the stuff that needs carrying in one go, to avoid having to spend time walking back to e.g. the car)

Fast, With Certainty, and Wrong


(about decisionmaking in the family in general)

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every man
has a plan
that will not work


– my dad.

I'd prefer "everyone has a plan that will not work" but it lacks the original's rhythm.

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Something I say every morning to myself: "Keep moving or the clowns will kill you."
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Today's Saturday checkin will be coming up later. Been in the city the whole day
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go down once, get up twice


– my grandfather.

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He was a welterweight boxer. Fought fleet smokers in the Navy. Soft-spoken, no-nonsense man.
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Something my Grandpa used to say: "It's your corn and your hogs," pretty much meaning "manage your business as you see fit but don't come crying to me if you get too greedy and put yourself out of business."
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"not my circus, not my monkeys"

A reminder to myself to stay in my lane, I can't fix everything

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Of course, one could make the case that it's nobody's monkeys, and sneak in to set them all free.